BNA 2009 Update
OK, so I realized recently that nearly 5 months has gone by in 2009 and I haven’t written a single article. But I don’t have anything to write about. It’s like I wore myself out. I had so many thoughts and ideas and wrote them down that everything since has been a rehash of those thoughts. I still engage people on Twitter but even that has slowed.
I wouldn’t say I’m tired of being an atheist, I’m tired of caring. I got it out of my system and I don’t feel the need to point it out. I still hate religion for the harm that it causes and the retarded decision people make based of those religions and beliefs in supernatural beings. Regardless of whether I keep writing articles I will leave all of this available to those people who are looking for answers or just exploring.
My wife is still a believer and I don’t get in the way of her teaching that stuff to our daughter. I assume when my daughter makes her own decision later in life she’ll have the capability to choose. With a religious mother and a non-religious father she sees both sides. My daughter has never read the articles on this site but I hope someday she’s find them interesting.
The name Brand New Atheist was very clever when I learned the truth and created this site. However, I’ve noticed I get treated like someone who became an atheist yesterday because of the name. I’m considering using something different in the future.
I run my own business and business has been extremely slow. I work for clients in the ad business and some of the first cuts that get made in a slow economy are ad budgets. Everything is not caught up but I assume most people who read this know what I mean. When my clients don’t work neither do I. It doesn’t bother me that much because I always assume something will be in my way of success. I just keep trying.
In 2007 my wife and I adopted my niece, we wanted to give her something we didn’t think she was going to get otherwise. After being with us for 2 years, my niece (age 15 now) left. She didn’t want to be part of our family and she wanted to go back to her grandmothers (where there are far fewer rules). We let her go back because she was going to make us miserable if we didn’t. Can you imagine the expense this experience has cost us. Fortunately our household is back to the way it was before the adoption but the expense remains. It’s always something.
I’ve had my sister-in-law engage me in religious conversation recently. The conversations have been quite nice.
My Xbox360 died from the RedRingofDeath and Sam’s Club replaced it for free even though it was 3.5 years old. That was cool. Then my wife reminded me we don’t shop at Sam’s Club or Walmart because they are horrible companies like Monsanto.
I’ve been on a food kick recently. I became a vegetarian last year (my daughter has been for 3 years) and I thought not eating meat was going to difficult. Now I find out that a large portion of the crops grown are genetically modified organisms (GMO) and they haven’t been tested properly for human consumption. Now I’m not only a vegetarian but the majority of what I eat has to be organic. As soon as I’m done writing this I’m going to watch, The Man from Earth, and I’m going to eat organic tortilla chips with organic salsa and drink my organic lemonade.
My daughter (age 12) has been rehearsing for a Narnia play for months at the Louisville Youth Theater. She has seven showings this weekend. I’m very proud of her. I’ll get to see the play on Sunday, after which we will take her out to eat and surprise her with the gift of a Nintendo Wii.
Well that’s where I’m at. Just a (mostly) normal guy trying to get by and make a better world for my daughter.
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July 29th, 2009 at 3:33 pm
Atheists and Gnostics are right in most of their thinking
It has been common among religious believers to look with misgiving to atheists and Gnostics, and to think that they are mistaken; however, in many instances the opposite is the truth; some religious beliefs are not just irrelevant, but baseless. The “God” of main line traditions simply does not exist. I accepted the challenge of finding the One who may be recognized even by Gnostics and atheists: the Existence itself, “All-That-Is.” If something is there, that is God. Look at the book “Christianity Reformed From ist Roots – A life centered in God” (Amazon.com). I am confident that some of your friends will be relieved of the illusion, as I did myself.
Jairo Mejia, M. Psych., Santa Clara University
Retired Episcopal Priest
Carmel Valley, California
http://www.mbay.net/~jmejia/Grudzen.htm
http://www.mbay.net/~jmejia/Churcher.htm
August 5th, 2009 at 6:15 pm
Just found your blog thanks to a post you made on http://americanfreethought.com I’m sorry to hear you’re tired sometimes of writing about atheism. I’ve been a non-believer for a while, but it’s only fairly recently I’ve started being active online. I just came out to my wife this past weekend, and she was surprisingly very understanding, I’m very fortunate. We don’t have kids, but that’s something we’ll have to decide how to deal with when it comes up. I’ll have to read more of your blog to see how your journey as a not-so-new-anymore atheist has been.
August 14th, 2009 at 10:38 pm
Hi Rob,
As my sister kept me informed of your sister. I didn’t know you adopted her kid. It’s too bad that didn’t work out, but I only know a little of the story.
As for being vegetarian? I’d like to try it, but I sure do like meat!! I have, however, added more veggies to my diet and want eventually eat WAY less meat.
Now, on to the next article….
August 15th, 2009 at 3:10 am
I look forward to seeing more of your comments on my articles.
August 15th, 2009 at 3:13 am
Yeah, I said I wasn’t going to be a vegetarian up until the day I decided to be a vegetarian. I liked hot wings, now they gross me out. I mostly miss the sauce not the meat.
November 19th, 2009 at 7:51 pm
Yeah… I don’t know. I guess the gnostic stuff is less harmful. But still, all that spirit of the Christ inside me stuff, seems pretty backwards…